I suck at keeping up with this.
I live in Portland Maine.
I don’t want to.
I’m a freelance artist, like most people Portland.
I’m fucked up from my childhood and various traumas, like we all are.
I see a psychologist. I’ve been diagnosed with a slew of disorders.
The ones that stuck are Borderline personality disorder with comorbid generalized anxiety and major depressive disorders. I also have PTSD.
Every day is a battle.
I’m here to vent, to write about how every day situations affect me. To advocate for mental health issues. To tell secrets and blunt truths.
My mind is never quiet. Lately I’ve been exceedingly preoccupied with my mistakes. Yeah, this seems normal, but not really for me. I never used to give a shit about my mistakes. I figured that if I learned something from it, how could it really be a mistake? Oh right because ALL of your decisions control your life and where you end up and who’s still around. I can’t stop beating up on myself. I’m done learning new shit, can’t I just be happy instead?
I smoke a lot of weed right now. I used to drink a lot. Shit gets complicated when you’re on medication though. But right now my anxiety meds are seriously lacking. The weed helps my insomnia, my nightmares and panic attacks. It calms the voices in my head that are screaming at me, telling me over and over that no ones loves me. Telling me over and over that I am nothing, that I’ll never amount to anything.
These voices….they narrate my day, they tell me what you’re thinking too. They are just other mes, the worst of me. Fighting them is the hardest thing I do. I’ve been sexually assaulted a few times and molested at 14 by someone I thought of as a father figure. My mother neglected me, abandoned me, verbally, emotionally, and physically abused me. I know things I shouldn’t, I had to grow up way too fast. I’ve feared for my life a few times. Because of this shit, I don’t know how to relate to people. I don’t know how to trust anyone of anything. I’m not even sure I understand what love is. I often flinch at other’s touch and I can have a flashback to abuse at any time it seems.
This is all just an introduction to what I’m about. I hope to write more, I plan to write more. Til next time.